Sex positions – what do you need them for?
Sexual passion between a man and a woman is like fire – if you do not support it and do not refresh it with anything new, it will be fading down together with your relationships in general, as most often sex is their important part. But how can you preserve passion and sexual interest to each other, what to do not to make your sexual life a grey everyday routine? The answer is quite simple: you need to change something from time to time in your sex, try to experiment, implement something interesting and new. The easiest and efficient means for that will be using different sex positions, which are like spices, are able to give one dish different tastes.
Here’s why we collected on this page for you the best sex positions, which will not only preserve your passion and interest to each other but will also make your sexual life really diversified and fascinating. Every intimate contact with your beloved will be a new enigma which you both will be eager to do.
In practice there exist a lot of poses, but if you take into account their different variations, their quantity will go to infinite number!) But before studying our list of sex positions numbered above and trying something it will be useful for you to read and understand the theoretical information bellow.
7 advantages of using different sex positions
If sex is only a means to continue your generation or just to relieve stress, the information bellow will be hardly useful for you. But if you have it for pleasure, to get extremely delightful emotions with your beloved, read this information carefully.
Everybody says and writes that changing positions in sex is good, that knowing their different options will make your sexual life diversified and so on. But why, how and what advantages does it give? There are a few nuances and secrets that not many people know. Unfortunately, not many people talk and write about it that is why now we will have a good at it and as they say, we will make it loud and simple.
- Different visual perception. While changing positions in sex you change the positions of partners as to each other, as a result you change perspectives, views and tightness of partners’ bodies. In other words:
You change the picture they see. And in its turn, the picture influences the partners’ perception of what is going on and their feelings.
It is especially important for men, as their eyes are the second sensitive zone after penis on its importance. It comes as no surprise that women love with their ears, and men with their eyes!)) Men largely live the sex visually, that is why they love so much to watch porn. Of course, hearing, sense of touch and smell of men are also activated during sex, but most of all they are excited by the picture, that is what they see. For example, when a man and a woman do it in the missionary position, when the couple can see nothing but the faces of each other. And for example, doggy style positions of opened female rider, when the man see a wonderful view of woman’s buttocks and when he sees his penis penetrate into his female partner and makes her shiver of pleasure. You must admit that only from the visual side these two positions will awake absolutely different emotions of the man and in doggy style positions his emotions will be much brighter. Well, men will understand what we are talking about!) Unlike men, for women the most important perception channels after genitors are skin and ears. That is why they love so much tender words and long-time soft touches, caresses, stroking and kissing all over their body.
- Different feelings. To understand better the interconnection between all sex positions and the feelings you received you need to understand the following things: in every positions the penis penetrates under different angle and with different depth by stimulating different parts of vagina, its different zones and with different intensity. As the inner surface of the vagina is impure (has different sensibility), the feeling of woman in different positions will be also different. At that, every woman has her own feelings, which can differ from the feeling of another woman. Men, in this relation have almost the same situation: in different positions they have different impact on the head of their penis, on its different areas. That means that:
Different positions for sex allow changing intensity of stimulation and zones of stimulation of the vagina by penis. And as these areas have different sensibility, the couple can experience different feelings.
- Different emotions. Another view, other feelings and other emotions. Two previous factors taken together born the third factor. Trying diversified positions, you saturate your love game with different colors and shades that is with different emotions. We have already talked about importance of diversity in sex to preserve passion. Different positions are one of the simplest ways to achieve it.
- Compensation of sexual incompatibility. We all know the cases when the man has a little penis and the woman can not get pleasure. Or vise versa – when the man has too big penis, which makes the woman experience more unpleasant feelings than pleasant. But, fortunately, such incompatibility can be easily eliminated with the help of special sex positions. Find more details about it in this article.
- Stimulation of different sensitive zones. In point of fact, that is what we have already discussed in section “Different feelings”, but here we would like to emphasize one important fact. We’re speaking about 3 main sensual zones of the vagina. When you know about their existence and their accurate location in the vagina, you can consciously stimulate them, conveying different kinds of orgasm of the woman.
- Give the woman what she needs from orgasm. Every woman and her sexuality is a unique book which you will need to understand. Unlike the woman, the man can get orgasm in absolutely every sex position, as in any position his penis head is stimulated enough well. And if we speak about the woman, then it is more difficult. The woman’s clitoris on its size, position and sensibility differs among different women, as they have different completeness of sensitive points in their vaginas, which we mentioned above. All that leads to the fact that if you want to satisfy the girl regularly you need to understand how to better stimulate and to pay them more attention during sex. How can you determine all that? – You need to experiment more and more! It is surprising, but in most cases the girls know what they need to be satisfied, how and where to stimulate, at what depth and with what intensity. Right for that there exist a lot of sex positions which can help you stimulate the woman in different ways, and finely you will understand what she likes most of all.
- Toning the whole organism. In the oriental medicine there exists such a notion as reflection. It is about the fact, that all parts of body and all organs of our organism are connected and by influencing on one organ in some special way you can indirectly influence on others. Genitals are not an exception. Both man’s penis and woman’s vagina from inside on their surface have many representative areas of all vital organs that are points which are connected with these organs.
That is why, the more genital areas you stimulate during sex, the larger toning effect to the whole organism of both partners will be.
And different sex positions ensure engagement of the maximum quantity of male and female genital areas.
The best sex positions – what are they?
Having seen this title, many people expect a list or photos of the best positions which can help get most pleasure. But we will disappoint you!)) Here’s no such list, moreover, it does not exist and can not even exist. The thing is that notion of “the best sex positions” is not correct and now you will understand why. Everybody knows that all people differ, men, women – we all are different. And what is good for one person may not work with others and vice versa. And that is why to determine a list of poses which would be “best” for everybody is impossible.
The best poses are those, which suit you and your partner most of all. This notion is not common but individual.
Maybe you want to know how to determine such ones for yourself. But, unfortunately… Firstly, it is not that fast as you want, secondly, you can determine it only through your personal search, by trying and experimenting. However, don’t get sad, because there is a nice news! – this search will be the most sweet and delightful, trust us!) So, before start the search, you need to remember 7 important rules.
7 rules for experiments with sex positions
We’ve already mentioned that the best sex poses are those which suit best you and your partner. You will not learn about these ones in fashionable magazines and web-papers – you will need to find out them by yourself. Right about it we are going to talk now, and exactly about how to experiment with positions for sex with the purpose to determine the best ones for you and your partner. Let’s study 7 important rules, which will help you with that.
- All your actions must be conscious. As the man takes active role in most cases, that is he who must understand and imagine clearly what and why he needs to do. If the man wants to satisfy his woman, all his actions must be conscious and motivated. By choosing one or another position, the man must understand what vagina areas to manipulate and with what intensity, whether he will stimulate clitoris at that or not and so on. And to understand it all you need to learn the following rule.
- Knowledge of how female genitals are organized. The man, pretending to the title of a lover, must be sexually competent and be good at the following questions:
– How female genitals are organized;
– Where is the clitoris and how to find it;
– Organization and anatomy of vagina;
– Main sensitive areas of vagina and so on.
All that allows the man being more effective in sex and satisfy the girl with greater pleasure.
- Everything of genius is simple— many people think, that the more complex position is, the more pleasure it gives. But that is not true. In fact, in most cases, everything of genius is simple. The simplest sex position may be the most pleasant as for her, as for him. The main thing is to determine the most sensual areas of the woman’s vagina and to understand what pose will ensure their stimulation.
- If something is unpleasant, stop — good sex is when pleasure get both, him and her. That is why, before trying something new, discuss with your partner the question, that if something is uncomfortable or unpleasant, you will say about that and will change the position.
- Don’t make conclusions from the first try — every person’s body is not static, it always changes the state, that’s why reaction of the body to the same stimulation or caress can differ in two different cases. It is especially characteristic to women who always experience different feelings in the same pose under influence of the constantly changing endocrine profile.
- Change position as you see fit — don’t try to perform exactly everything according to the image. Adapt positions to you, to your abilities and needs. Perform everything to make you and your partner feel comfortable and pleasant, and nothing else matters. Sometimes, you change the penetration angle and feelings change. That is why, try, experiment and find an optimal solution for yourself.
- Complicate positions gradually — you should not try complicated positions when there are a lot of easier sex positions which you have not tried yet. Go from easy to more complicated but not vice versa. You should remember that sex must bring you pleasure but not traumas. Complicate poses as far as your experience grows.
- Communicate with your partner — No! Of course not during sex!) Though sometimes, it will be even useful to ask: «Does it feel good?» or «Do you feel comfortable?». When your partner hears that he/she will understand that you care. But you shouldn’t talk too much! You shouldn’t bother you partner with these question every minute. You can discuss the position you tried after getting to the Earth after another your pleasant mutual flight!)) While lying and hugging with enjoying delightful aftertaste of sex, you may ask what your partner liked and what not. Maybe you could change something and so on.
Thus, after some time, you can understand which positions suit you and your partner best.
It is important not only to know, but to understand the position
Quite often couple experiment with different positions but do not get the desired result. Why? Because you need to understand every one, to understand what it gives to the man and to the woman. Apart from visual perception you need to understand clearly what and how to stimulate in this or that pose, with what areas of vagina your penis interacts and what its part.
This little accent is like a little key to a big door, behind which there is a main treasure that is her and your orgasm.
For example, one man can be working on his female partner for half an hour like a wild rabbit, but she will not be satisfied, and another man, who knows constitution of female genitals and understands nuances, can change slightly the angle of penis penetration and in this way he will activate a sensitive area of her vagina which will allow her be satisfied much quicker. That is just an example of the fact how important is understanding of every position in sex. Knowing and understanding of sex positions is not the top but just a step, but a very important one, approaching you to the real high art of sex.
Kamasutra — is the first sex positions reference book
In the days, when people hunted mammoths, sex might resemble coupling of wild animals. But time has passed, man developed, culture developed, as well as the culture of sex relations between men and women. India is a country, which has always had very developed erotic culture and no wonder, that right this country is the motherland of the first encyclopedia of sex – the Kamasutra. Though this book described for the first time in details techniques and different sex positions, in general, its content embraced much wider spectrum of issues about relations of men and women. Unfortunately, modern world takes the Kama sutra only as a collection of sex poses, leaving without attention the bigger and more important part of this ancient Indian cultural creation. To know more about this book, read our article about Kamasutra.
by Mika Miro.