How To Eat a Girl Out: 19 Cunnilingus Techniques (To Get Her Off)

If you, my friend, wanna claim the title of a badass lover, then you have to know how to eat pussy like a Pro.

Why?

First off, cunnilingus feels amazing — it gives women this perfect blend of deep, intense pleasure and soft, delicate sensations that nothing else can match.

Just think back to how a blowjob feels… yeah, now you get the idea!)

Second, mastering the art of pussy eating — it’s that ace up your sleeve that can completely change the bedroom game in your favor at any moment.

She can’t orgasm during penetration? Or maybe your “sword” suddenly turned from steel to Jell-O? Hey, life happens.

But no matter what curveballs come your way, you’ll stay calm, cool, and confident — like a damn rock — if you’ve got killer oral skills.

By the way, cunnilingus is one of the 7 secret weapons of truly great lovers.

So in this article, I’m gonna break down everything you need to know to become a legit master of going down on a woman.

You’re gonna learn how to eat a girl out so good, any woman you end up in bed with will be soaring to heaven from pleasure — “flying” so high she’ll be seeing planets and stars NASA doesn’t even know about!)

But, before we dive in, let me ask you something:

Alright, whoever you are, I genuinely hope this guide helps you out and gives you some new tools to level up your oral sex game.

Oh, and speaking of games — there’s a cunnilingus simulator coming up where you’ll get to try and make her cum.

Ready to play?) So… keep reading and get ready!

WARNING!

This pussy-eating guide may make you irresistible to women and result in girls chasing after you. We are not responsible for any damage that may occur to you or any parts of you!

Pussy Area Navigation Map

Before you can confidently work your magic down there, you need to actually understand what’s going on between her legs. If you don’t know what’s what, your tongue tango might not be as effective as it could be.

Cunnilingus isn’t just about random licking — it’s about understanding what you’re doing and why. You wouldn’t try to catch a black cat in a dark room, right?)

So, first things first — we’re taking a little field trip to her most intimate zone.

I’m gonna walk you through everything you need to know about her anatomy, so later on you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about when we get into pussy eating techniques.

Outside View

You pull down her panties, she spreads her legs, and here’s what you see.

Let me break it down for you in simple terms:

• Mons pubis (a.k.a. the pubic mound). This is the area above the vulva where her pubic hair usually grows. It’s not very sensitive and not something you need to focus on much.
• Vulva. This is the area between the mons pubis and the perineum — kind of like a skin “opening” that holds all the good, super-sensitive stuff we do care about. We’ll dive into the juicy details in a second.
• Anus. The little ring of muscle (a sphincter) in the back that leads to the rectum. It’s packed with nerve endings, which is why many women enjoy gentle licking or stimulation there.
• Perineum. That small patch of skin between the vulva and anus. It’s usually a bit less sensitive than the anus, but don’t underestimate it — a warm, teasing lick here can feel amazing.

Now, let’s zoom in on the vulva and what it includes:

• Clitoris. The holy grail of female pleasure. It’s the most sensitive part of the vulva and your main focus when eating her out. The little nub you see is just the tip (literally) — that’s the clitoral head, kind of like the head of a penis. But the clit is actually way bigger, with most of it hidden inside the body. I break it down in more detail here — Where is the clit and how to find it.
• Clitoral hood. A fold of skin that covers and protects the clitoral head. Think of it like the foreskin on a penis.
• Labia majora (Outer labia). These are the fleshy lips on either side of the vulva. They often swell when she’s turned on.
• Labia minora (Inner labia). These are the thinner, softer lips just inside the outer ones. They frame the vaginal opening and meet at the top near the clit. The spot where they join is kind of like the male frenulum — and yeah, it can be really sensitive.
• Vaginal opening. This is where the penis goes during vaginal sex. You’ll find it toward the lower end of the vulva.
• Urethral opening. That tiny hole just above the vaginal opening — that’s where she pees from.

Inner Parts

Great oral sex isn’t just about your tongue and lips — sometimes your fingers get to join the party too.

In this guide, I’ll show you cunnilingus techniques that involve using your fingers inside her vagina while your mouth works her clit.

So knowing what’s inside matters just as much as what you see on the outside.

Let’s go deeper (literally) and explore what’s hidden inside her vagina — and how you can use it to take her pleasure to the next level while going down on her.

• G-Spot. It’s located on the front (upper) wall of her vagina, about 2–3 inches in from the entrance. Stimulating this area while eating her pussy can massively amplify her pleasure, but there are a few things you should know. First, every woman’s G-spot is different — some feel it more intensely than others. Second, it becomes more prominent as she gets aroused. The more turned on she is, the more it swells and the more sensitive it becomes. I dive deeper into this in the post: What is the G-spot and how to find it.
• A-Spot (Anterior Fornix). Also on the front wall, but deeper inside — closer to the cervix. Like the G-spot, some women love having this area touched when they’re highly aroused, while others barely notice it. When done right, it can create a deep, full-body kind of pleasure.
• Vagina. Think of it as a soft tunnel that connects the vaginal opening to the cervix. For most women, the first third of the vagina is the most sensitive — and it’s also where the internal part of the clitoris and the G-spot are located.
• Cervix. This one’s tricky. It’s the lower part of the uterus and sits at the end of the vaginal canal. Some women find cervical stimulation incredibly intense and orgasmic, while others find it uncomfortable or even painful. So always pay attention to her reactions and check in with her before going there.

Here’s something really important to understand:

The G-spot, A-spot, cervix — all those pleasure zones don’t work the same way for every woman.

Sensitivity Map

Now that you’ve got a solid idea of what’s where down there, let me show you a kind of “pleasure map” — a visual guide that highlights exactly where your tongue can really blow her mind.

I’ve color-coded the surface of the map in orange and red:

• Orange zones – These areas feel really good when you kiss or lick them. They’re arousing, they build anticipation… but on their own, they’re probably not enough to push her over the edge.
• Red zones – These are the hotspots. If you hit these just right, you’ve got a real shot at giving her an orgasm.

This sensitivity map reflects what works for the vast majority of women. It’s not a universal rule, but it’s a damn solid starting point.

And when you’re looking at the image below: there’s a slider that lets you overlay the pleasure zones on top of her genitals (slide it to the right), or hide the map to see just the anatomy (slide it to the left).

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As you can see, most of a woman’s sensitivity is concentrated around the head of her clit and just below it — where the inner lips (labia minora) meet and transition into the clitoral glans.

That’s the area you’ll want to give the most attention to when you’re going down on her.

The inner labia and everything between them — including the vaginal opening and the surrounding area — have a sensitivity level similar to, say, the skin on a guy’s balls or the shaft of his dick. You can lick them, and it will feel nice to her… but that alone probably won’t make her come.

That doesn’t mean you should ignore those areas — hell no! Women love full-on contact during cunnilingus. The key is just knowing when to give those areas attention, and when to focus in on the high-sensitivity zones.

The “orange zones” are perfect to explore at the beginning — before you even touch her clit. They’re also great for switching things up in the middle of eating pussy, especially if you’re using edging techniques (more on that later).

But when it’s go-time — the final stretch — you want to stay locked in on the “red zone,” which means focusing on her clit.

Alright, let’s not get too far ahead of ourselves. We’ll take this step by step.

You do know how every good sexual encounter with a woman starts, right?

That’s right — with a warm-up.

Make Her Crave It Before You Eat Her Out

Great pussy-eating always starts with solid foreplay. Before you go down on a woman, you’ve got to get her turned on, trembling with anticipation, craving your every move as you slowly make your way south.

Take. Your. Time.

Seriously — the more drawn-out it is, the better it feels. Women naturally take longer to get fully aroused than men do. They thrive on that slow build-up. They want a gradual, sensual ride — not a sprint.

So what does “slow” really mean? I once asked a friend that exact question, and her answer stuck with me:

Imagine what feels really slow to you… and then go twice as slow.

That advice is golden — because what you think is slow and gentle probably still feels rushed from her perspective.

The Slow Descent

Don’t rush through a few kisses and then dive straight in to lick her pussy like you’re racing the clock. That’s rookie energy.

Instead, give her time to melt into the moment. Let her body relax and ease into the flow. Take your time moving from her lips down to her neck… then to her ears… back to her neck… and slowly work your way down to her chest.

Spend some quality time on her breasts, then gradually make your way to her stomach, her hips, her thighs.

Ideally? That journey from her mouth to her panties should take at least 10 minutes.

I know what you’re thinking:

Ten minutes?! Are you kidding me? What the hell am I supposed to do for 10 whole minutes?

Here’s the answer: do exactly what you normally do — just cut the pace in half. Or even better, try the “two steps forward, one step back” approach. Move in closer, then pull back just a little. Tease, retreat, approach again… slowly.

Don’t Rush the Panty Removal

When you finally reach her panties, don’t rush to rip them off. Keep kissing the insides of her thighs… or her ass cheeks if she’s lying on her stomach. Slowly — and I mean slowly — start working your way closer to her pussy.

Lick around the edges of her panties. Tease the skin just outside of them. The closer you get, the more intense her desire will build.

You’ll literally see her body responding — writhing, shifting, moving toward your mouth like she can’t help it.

By the time you’re ready to slide her panties off, chances are they’ll be soaked — a clear signal that it’s time.

Take them off slowly. Gently. But don’t dive in for cunnilingus just yet. Hold her on the edge just a little longer.

Use your tongue to trace softly around the areas just next to her pussy. Let her feel how close you are — let her know it’s about to happen.

And then, finally… you move from foreplay to the main event.

19 Pussy-Eating Techniques

I’ve broken down all the cunnilingus techniques into three main categories, and we’re gonna start with the most basic and common one.

Licking

First, get your tongue nice and wet with saliva. Stick it out and relax it so it’s soft, smooth, and moist. That’s exactly the kind of tongue you want when you’re licking her clit.

To keep your tongue relaxed and gentle, make sure you’re not moving just your tongue — move your whole head instead.

Also, make sure your upper teeth are covered by your upper lip.

Start with super slow, soft licking motions and apply as little pressure as possible — clit sensitivity can vary a lot from woman to woman, so gentle is the way to go at first.

Technique 1

Bottom-to-Top Lick. Place the flat part of your tongue just below her clit and slowly drag it upward, like you see in the animation below.

This movement gives her clit a deep, focused stimulation — especially in that lower area where the inner labia connect into it.

The size of the red circle in the animation shows how much of your tongue is in contact with her vulva. A bigger circle = more of your tongue surface is in contact with her.

Technique 2

Continuous Up-and-Down Motion. This one’s all about rhythm. Just like in Technique #1, press your tongue flat against her pussy and slowly lick upward — making full contact the whole way.

When the tip of your tongue reaches her clit, keep going just a little higher, then immediately start moving back down again, without ever lifting your tongue off her.

Once you hit the bottom, go right back up. And keep that loop going — slow, smooth, and non-stop.

Technique 3

Diagonal Upward Lick (Left Side Focus). Some women have clits that are more sensitive on one side — and that can totally change the game.

If she’s more responsive on the left, try angling your licks diagonally from the bottom-right toward the top-left.

Think of it like a smooth, upward-left glide with the whole tongue, just like before.

Technique 4

Diagonal Upward Lick (Right Side Focus). Same idea, but reversed. If her right side lights her up more, go from bottom-left to top-right in a diagonal sweep. Again — tongue flat, full contact, slow and steady.

It’s a small shift, but it can make a huge difference in how she feels it.

Technique 5

Zigzag Upward Motion. This one’s kinda like a mashup of the last two, but with shorter, back-and-forth movements as you move upward.

Imagine drawing little zigzags with your tongue as you go from bottom to top. These side-to-side rubbing strokes stimulate her clit from multiple angles — left, right, and underneath — all at once.

You can experiment with this a lot: shift the angle slightly, make the zigzags tighter or wider — just feel it out and see what makes her squirm the most (in a good way).

Technique 6

Circles Around the Clit. Start drawing slow, gentle circles around the clit. You can swirl clockwise, counterclockwise, or switch it up.

Unlike the earlier techniques, this one isn’t about using the whole flat surface of your tongue (though hey, you can experiment). Here, you’ll mostly use the tip or edge of your tongue.

Keep your tongue soft and relaxed.

Technique 7

Combo of #1 and #6. This one’s a sexy loop — start by circling around her clit a few times (like in Technique #6), then without losing contact, slide your tongue down, press it flat, and drag it slowly back up — like in Technique #1.

Once you’re back up at her clit, start the circular motion again. Then repeat the cycle — circles, slow upward lick, more circles, and so on.

Technique 8

The Figure 8 motion. Trace a slow, lazy figure “8” with your tongue, wrapping around her clit, then gliding down diagonally, circling around her vaginal opening, and heading back up diagonally on the other side.

As you come back up, press the flat of your tongue against her pussy again to maximize contact and sensation.

That smooth, continuous motion makes everything feel super connected — like one long wave of pleasure.

Quick Recap: Licking Techniques

Now that we’ve covered all the pussy-licking moves, here’s one thing you absolutely need to remember:

The speed and pressure you use while eating her out is something you have to adjust in real time, based on how she reacts.

There’s no universal “right way” because every woman’s body is different. What feels amazing for one might be too intense or not enough for another.

Your best approach is to start slow and gentle, then gradually build up the tempo and pressure.

To help you get the hang of it, I even made a fun little game that shows exactly how to perform cunnilingus the right way.

Pussy-Eating Simulator (Game)

The core idea of this game is all about building up the stimulation gradually, in sync with her rising arousal.

You start off super slow, focusing on the less sensitive areas around her pussy. Then, as things heat up, you slowly make your way toward the clit.

Your first touches on the clit should be gentle as hell — start slow with teasing strokes. Once she’s in the zone, you can gradually increase the pace.

Keep an eye on those bars on the right — make sure your “Stimulation” doesn’t get ahead of her “Arousal.”

Go too hard too soon, and her arousal’s gonna drop a few points every time.

Got any cool ideas on how to level up this cunnilingus game? Drop your suggestions right here.

Sucking + Licking

Sucking is another cool technique that can seriously intensify clitoral stimulation during cunnilingus. It involves gently sucking on the clit with your lips to create a vacuum effect.

The picture below shows the ideal position of your lips when using sucking techniques.

Technique 9

Start by licking and wetting your lips, then place them on her pussy so her clit is gently caught between your lips. Now, press your lips snugly around the clit and begin to suck it in slowly and softly, then release it in a gentle rhythm.

When you suck, her clit will slightly pull into your lips, and when you release, it’ll bounce back out.

It’ll feel a bit like sucking on a very small dick — hope that analogy doesn’t make you uncomfortable!)

The suction strength and speed are super personal, so always pay attention to her reactions. But no matter what, the rule stays the same:

Start really slow and super gentle, then keep an eye on how her body’s reacting.

Technique 10

Sucking with rocking. First, suck her clit like in the previous technique, then start gently rocking your head side to side (like you’re shaking your head “no”).

This might look a bit weird at first, but trust me — it works. The side-to-side rocking motion causes her clit to get sucked in more when your head is straight, and less when you turn your head to either side.

Basically, you’re creating quick, pulsing suction sensations while also moving the surrounding tissue, which adds to the pleasure.

A similar pulsing suction principle is used in clitoral vacuum stimulators like Womanizer, Satisfyer, and others, which is why they make women come so quickly.

To enhance this technique, once you’ve sucked her clit in, gently place your tongue on the clit’s head. Just gather as much saliva as you can on your tongue and keep it relaxed.

As you rock your head, her clit will gently glide over your tongue.

Technique 11

If your partner has a super sensitive clit and it feels uncomfortable when your lips wrap around it too tightly, try widening your lips and creating more of a buffer zone, basically giving her clit some breathing room.

Technique 12

Now we’re getting into combos — mixing licking and sucking together. Start like in one of the first techniques: use your flat, relaxed tongue and lick from the vaginal opening up toward the clit.

Once you’ve glided up her clit, wrap your lips around her pussy, suck her in gently, and slowly bring your lips together around the clit.

Technique 13

Ready to level up? Add a little swirl to the mix. Just like in the last technique, lick from bottom to top, but now twist your tongue around her clit like you’re drawing a swirl, then finish with a deep lip wrap and gentle suction.

Technique 14

While you’re sucking on her clit, shift your tongue toward your lower lip. Then, as you release the suction, slide your tongue upward along her clit.

Heads up: make sure to cover your upper teeth with your top lip. You really don’t want your teeth making contact — clits are not down for that.

This one’s a high-intensity pussy-eating technique, so you’ll want to save it for the home stretch, when she’s already warmed up and not quite as hypersensitive.

Technique 15

Seal your lips around her clit and create a vacuum, then swirl your tongue around it in slow circles.

Technique 16

Same vacuum setup with your lips, but now do a zigzag motion with your tongue from side to side, moving up from underneath her clit. This one mimics the licking motion from Technique 5 but with a smaller surface area.

Now that you’ve got all the cunnilingus techniques down, you can easily jump back and review any of them without endless scrolling.

I made a clean and easy navigation setup — each button takes you straight to a specific technique from the list.

• Techniques 1–8 are focused on licking.
• Techniques 9–16 combine licking + sucking (aka vacuum magic).

Tongue & Lips + Fingers

Your fingers are your trusty sidekicks when it comes to bringing a woman to orgasm. While you’re going down on her, you can use them to stimulate her G-spot at the same time — and that combo can seriously blow her mind.

Technique 17

If you take a closer look at how the clitoris is built and positioned, you’ll notice that most of its internal structure lies just above the first third of the vaginal canal.

That means, when you’re gently rubbing the front (upper) wall of her vagina, especially that first third, you’re actually stimulating the underside of her clitoral body at the same time.

In other words, you’re hitting her clit from both sides — and trust me, that’s a total game-changer.

Technique 18

You should also experiment with her lower vaginal wall — specifically the deepest part, closer to the cervix.

Some people call this the Deep Spot. And for some women, that area becomes super responsive when they’re turned on.

Technique 19

The anus is packed with nerve endings, and adding some butt play can really expand the range of sensations she feels.

So, what can you do with her booty?

• Soft stroking. Generously coat your finger with saliva or lube, and gently stroke around her anus in slow circles or long up-and-down motions.
• Pressure. Use the pad of your thumb (it’s wide and perfect for this) to gently press against her anus. You’re not trying to penetrate, just applying some pressure and gently stretching the muscles around her butt.
• Penetration. Slide your finger inside her butt without moving it. Just being there creates a sense of fullness that can feel amazing while you’re eating her out.
• In-and-out motion. If she’s into it, slowly and carefully move your finger in and out. Keep it super gentle and go with the flow of her body.

You can do all of this with your other hand while you’re going down on her, licking or sucking her clit, and your fingers are working her G-spot.

2 Important Rules When It Comes to Her Booty:

• Lube, lube, lube. The anus doesn’t produce its own natural lubrication like the vagina does, so it’s gonna stay dry no matter how turned on she gets. That means, when you’re touching her there, at the very least, you should wet your finger with saliva (the more, the better). And if you’re going in, always use a good lube.
• Stick to one finger. Never use the same finger that’s been in her ass for vaginal penetration. The bacteria in the rectum can be pretty harsh, and if it gets into her vagina, it could cause infections or imbalance her microbiota.

Looking back at all the techniques we’ve talked about:

I’ve laid out a bunch of different oral techniques and basically handed you a full set of tools to eat pussy like a champ.

Now, be ready for the fact that some things she’ll absolutely love, some she’ll like okay, and some might just not be her thing at all. And that’s totally fine — every woman is different.

Your toolbox is now stacked with variety, which means you’re ready for anything, no matter what she’s into or how her body responds.

It’s like having a keyring that lets you unlock any “door” with ease.

Tips You Need to Know to Go Down on a Woman

• Give her compliments. Every woman wants to feel sexy and desired — so don’t hold back. Tell her how beautiful she is, how soft her skin feels, how delicious she tastes, and how her scent drives you absolutely wild. This kind of praise helps her relax, feel appreciated, and fully surrender to the moment.
• Build up slowly. This goes for everything: speed, pressure, and suction. Let’s call all of that “intensity.” Always start with low intensity and gradually build it up.
• Don’t chase the orgasm. Sounds kinda backwards, but hear me out: If you’re too focused on making her come, it can actually make her feel pressured, like she’s failing because she’s not climaxing fast enough, even though you’re clearly trying hard. Trust me, women have all sorts of wild-ass thoughts running through their heads during sex and guilt over not finishing “on time” is one of them. That stress totally messes with her ability to focus on her body and the pleasure. So keep things smooth, chill, and unpressured — just enjoy the ride together.
• Watch out for stubble. Short stubble (especially the rough, prickly kind) is the enemy when it comes to eating a girl out. It can feel like sandpaper against her super-sensitive skin and ruin the whole experience. If your face is scratchy, it can seriously hurt her vulva or clit. Either shave smooth, or grow it out enough so it’s soft.
• Mind your teeth. Keep your teeth far away from her clit.
• Trim your nails. If you’re planning to use your fingers, make sure your nails are cut short and smooth. Sharp nails can scratch the insanely delicate tissue inside her vagina or anus, and that’s a mood killer.
• More spit = better. The wetter it is, the smoother everything feels and the better the stimulation. Don’t be shy with the saliva, it’s your best friend down there.
• Watch and calibrate. When you’re going down on a woman, pay close attention to her body language — her movements, her breathing, the sounds she makes. These are your main cues. If she’s leaning in, grinding against your mouth — you’re on the right track. If she’s pulling away or tensing up, something’s off. Adjust accordingly.
• Just ask. Sometimes you might get totally confused by her reactions (or lack of them) and it’s hard to tell if she’s enjoying herself or not. If that happens, don’t be afraid to just ask: “Are you enjoying this?” It’s totally normal, and it doesn’t make you seem inexperienced at all. In fact, it shows you care about her pleasure and want to make sure she’s having a good time.
• Enthusiasm is key. Eat her pussy with passion, or don’t do it at all. Women can totally tell the difference between a guy going down on them because he’s crazy about it and genuinely enjoys it, versus one who’s just doing it because he feels like he has to.
• The clit is not a penis. Some guys think they should lick and suck on the clit the same way they’d want their dick treated. Sure, the clit is like a female version of the penis, but it’s much smaller and way more sensitive. So, keep in mind that if you treat it the same way, the result might actually backfire.
• Touch all of her. Don’t let your hands just hang out doing nothing while you’re licking her pussy. When a woman’s turned on, her whole body lights up and becomes one big touch-hungry erogenous zone. So keep your hands in the game: gently stroke her thighs, grab her hips, trace your fingers over her stomach, her boobs, anywhere you can reach.
  And don’t just zero in on her clit right away. Cunnilingus isn’t just about licking her clit. Explore the rest of her pussy and the areas around it too.
• Rhythm & consistency when she’s close. In the beginning and middle of your pussy-eating session, you can switch things up: change techniques, vary the speed and pressure, even tease other parts of her body. But once she’s getting really close to orgasm, you need to lock it in. At the finish line, rhythm and consistency are everything.
• Edging. Edging is all about teasing her close to orgasm… and then backing off. You slow down or shift your focus to a less sensitive area just before she tips over the edge. You do that a few times, and then on the final round you eat her out all the way through to climax.
• Stimulation during and after orgasm. Right after she comes, her clit becomes super sensitive. Like, hypersensitive to the point where the same level of stimulation that felt amazing a second ago might now feel overwhelming or even painful. That’s totally normal — it’s called the refractory period. So as soon as she climaxes, dial things way down. Either pause completely, or just rest your lips and a relaxed tongue softly against her vulva.
• Porn is lying to you. Let’s be real: porn is made to turn men on — not to teach anyone how to actually please a woman. So when you see some dude frantically flicking a clit with the tip of his tongue like he’s trying to send Morse code — that’s not it, chief. That move looks intense, but it’s rarely what actually gets women off in real life.
• Try sex toys during oral. Bringing in toys can seriously level up your oral game. Use a vibrator or dildo to penetrate her vagina while your mouth works her clit. Sometimes, your fingers just aren’t long enough to reach her A-spot or deep spot — a toy can totally help with that. Plus, the added vibrations bring a whole new layer of pleasure. An anal plug can also heighten her sensations and free up a hand so you can play with her breasts, thighs, or anywhere else she loves being touched.
• Analingus (Rimming). This one’s best saved for dessert — after she’s already had her orgasm.  Because going from ass to pussy with your tongue can transfer bacteria from her booty to her vagina (like I already mentioned earlier when we talked about using fingers for anal play during cunnilingus). But if she just showered and made sure all her sweet little holes are squeaky clean,
  there’s no reason you can’t give her booty some love while you’re eating her pussy. Just make sure she’s into it first.

Cunnilingus Positions

If you wanna spice up your pussy-eating game, switching up positions can add a ton of variety and make oral way more fun for both of you.

The classic: lying down (oral Missionary)

This is the most comfortable, go-to position for both of you. She lies on her back with her legs spread, and you position yourself flat on your stomach, with your head between her thighs. Simple, intimate, and super effective.

Face-sitting (oral Cowgirl)

If you’re both fans of the cowgirl position, you’re gonna love this one. She straddles your face and grinds on your tongue at the pace and pressure that hits just right for her.

Your only job here is to stick your tongue out as far as you can and keep your teeth covered with your upper lip. Then just let her ride your tongue like it’s her own personal magic carpet!)

The 69 position

Nothing beats the sweet combo of giving and receiving at the same time. The 69 position is a perfect way for both of you to share some unforgettable pleasure.

The most comfortable version is lying on your sides.

Another, more exciting variation of the 69 position is when she’s on top.

Not only does it give you a full view of that gorgeous ass, but both your hands are free to explore every inch of her body. You know exactly what to do with that.

Eating pussy from behind (oral Doggy style)

If you’re into raw, primal sex, eating her out from the back is gonna be one of your favorites. It’s wild, animalistic, and totally freaky and crazy. Plus… oh man, that view!

Standing Clit Licking

Why wait until you hit the bed? Drop down and go down on her while she’s standing. It’s spontaneous, sexy, and opens up a whole new world of places to treat her to some oral pleasure.

Eating her out while sitting in a chair

Switch things up and make use of your furniture. Don’t let that chair just sit there collecting dust, put it to damn good use.

You’re kicked back in the chair, she’s kneeling on the armrests, her pussy right in your face. You grab her ass, pull her in close, and dive in — lips locked on her juicy pussy like you’ve been starving for it.

Tabletop cunnilingus

So… what happens after your romantic candlelit dinner? How about dessert served on the table?)

Or maybe like this…

Or perhaps with a little oral treat she’ll never forget.

And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Check out all 42 pussy-eating positions + 18 variations of the 69 position you definitely don’t wanna miss.

But if you’re into exploring all kinds of sex positions (not just oral), head over to the All Sex Positions page for the full list.

Final Thoughts

You can find a ton of advice online about how to eat a woman out. Some of it might be pretty similar, but other tips can totally contradict each other, even when they’re coming from women themselves.

And that’s totally normal, because everyone’s got their own experiences, different partners, preferences, and so on.

There’s no one best way to eat pussy or a 100% foolproof formula that works perfectly on every woman. You’ve gotta be ready for the fact that your “tried-and-true technique” might not work the same way with everyone.

In this cunnilingus guide, I’ve tried to give you as many pussy-eating techniques as possible to help you find the right approach for any woman. Your job is to figure out what works best for your girl.

And remember — every technique only becomes powerful when it’s driven by your real, honest desire to blow her mind with pleasure.

So love your women, make them happy both with and without a reason, and of course, give them unforgettable orgasms.

In the comments, I encourage everyone to share their own experiences and opinions, to criticize, argue, and so on. Because it’s only in debate that the truth comes out.

So, I’m looking forward to hearing your thoughts.