Looking for a fun, exciting sex position that’s both intimate and adventurous? The Butterfly sex position is an amazing choice. You won’t have to twist yourself into crazy shapes or show off acrobat-level flexibility. It’s simple, effortless, and oh-so-pleasurable — just the way you like it!)
What is the Butterfly Sex Position and What Does It Look Like?
In the classic version of the Butterfly Position, the woman lies on her back on the edge of the bed with her legs raised. The man kneels upright beside the bed, places her legs on his shoulders, and enters her. Here’s what it looks like:
The key to this position is that the partners are facing each other, but their bodies are angled away from each other, typically at a 90-degree angle or more. This creates the perfect angle for penetration and gives that sweet, deep G-spot stimulation. Check out even more sex positions for G-spot stimulation.
How to Do the Butterfly Sex Position
The most important thing is this: when the woman is lying on her back with her legs up, the guy enters her while standing vertically. It doesn’t matter if she’s on a bed, a table, or any other surface — as long as the angle between you two is right, the position works anywhere!

Tips for Her
- Why raise your legs? You raise your legs to slightly tilt your pelvis, giving your man’s cock better access to your front vaginal wall during thrusts. As you may know, that’s where your G-spot is.
- Use a pillow. If holding your legs up feels uncomfortable, grab a small sex pillow and place it under your butt (not your lower back!). It’ll lift your pelvis, making it easier to hold the position and helping to target G-spot stimulation more precisely.
- Clitoral stimulation. In the Butterfly position, your clit doesn’t get as much natural stimulation from thrusting. If clitoral stimulation is important for you to reach orgasm, feel free to give it a little extra love with your hand or a vibrator.
- Eye contact. While eye contact during sex is super intimate and hot, not everyone finds it comfortable. If it distracts you or makes you self-conscious, just close your eyes and focus on the feeling. No big deal!
Tips for Him
- Enhance the G-spot stimulation. To really amp up the G-spot stimulation, don’t just enter her vaginally in a straight line – try coming in a little lower and angling upward. You can also place a sex pillow under her butt or pull her knees toward her chest to get the same effect (check out Variation 10 below for details).
- Boost clitoral stimulation. As I mentioned for her, the Butterfly sex position doesn’t naturally stimulate the clit, so she’ll likely need to give it some extra attention. But if she’s not feeling comfortable doing that in front of you, why not step in and help out?
- Narrow her pussy. For tighter penetration, you can cross her legs (placing one leg over the other), which will make her vagina slightly narrower. This can enhance both your sensations and hers.
- Enjoy her breasts. The Butterfly position is one of those positions where you can watch her tits bounce from each of your passionate thrusts. And, guess what? You can touch them too! I know you love doing that, so take full advantage of the moment!)
32 Variations of the Butterfly Sex Position
While the classic Butterfly position is done on the edge of the bed, there’s nothing stopping you from trying it on other raised surfaces (like a table, car hood), or even the floor. Below are some variations to show you how to make this position work in all kinds of settings.
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Just remember, any position can bring you plenty of fun as long as there’s love, or at least trust, openness, and a real desire to pleasure each other. Try experimenting with different Butterfly sex position variations and, of course, share your thoughts, experiences, and any cool ideas you’ve got in the comments below!
can i poop while doing this?
Only if you want to
Oh!
Really , your too stupid and should immediately go
To the missionary position & stay there for rest of life
I’m not married but I really love doggystyle, my arms get tired easily during missionary position